| Remembering "Stan"
This day in 2018 started as usual around the fire station, but ended horribly. What started out as a mutual aid request for rope rescue would end with the loss of one of the greatest people to ever join our department. In the days, weeks, and months that followed, we cried, searched for why, met many amazing humans, witnessed the support of our amazing town and communities, remembered the fallen, and tried to find a reason to continue responding to calls.
When a person enters the fire service, it's usually because they just want to help others, love the adrenaline rush associated with emergency response, or, in some cases, are just searching for a job. When you are in the fire service and lose part of your family on a call, you find yourself searching for why you really are a firefighter and asking yourself, "Is it worth it?". Every August 13th, many of us relive that horrible day in 2018, so we offer this advice.
Hug your loved ones and tell them you love them, often. Tell your friends and family what they mean to you. Show compassion for strangers in need. If you have friends or family who are firefighters, work in EMS, or law enforcement, check on them periodically and make sure they know it is worth it and that what they do is important.
Please say a little prayer for peace and continued healing for the family of Chief Holden and his fire families.
We are forever remembering our friend, coach, teacher, and leader, Jeffrey "Stan" Holden. Last alarm August 18, 2018 Gone in body but forever living on in our hearts. |